Healing Your Relationship with Money

Money itself is not evil. It is just a tool, a consciousness, a medium for exchanges of energies, goods and services. It has been abused by the system that created it. Earth is probably the only planet that uses money to exchange for goods and services. For lightworkers, starseeds, blue rays, indigos, the idea of money may feel very uncomfortable because we believe more in awakening, seeking for the truth, connecting with our spirituality, fulfilling our purpose or mission and living in peace and satisfaction.

Step 1 - Identify what is your Spending Pattern

- Do you spend more than you earn?

- Do you save and scrimp every cent?

- Do you try and strike a balance between saving and spending?

- Which area do you spend the most? Is it any alternative way to cut down on those areas?

- If you are spending more than you earn, identify where you can eliminate the expenses and go down to the basics and focus on a simpler lifestyle with lower maintenance. Spending more to own stuffs is a sign of hoarding or accumulating things that are unnecessary. Most of the time, we consume more and more things because we have to keep up our images, reputation, achievements in comparison with our peers or competitors.

- If you are saving every cent, fearing not enough money. It is still a poverty consciousness of lack.

Step 2 - Process your Emotional Relationship with Money

For a moment, take a pause as you think about money. How does it make you feel?

Ask the following questions:

1. How do you feel when you receive the bills, invoice, monthly credit card or bank statement?

- Identify the emotions that you are feeling. Anger, frustration, bitterness, sadness, reluctance etc.

Give it a name, a color or shape, hot or cold. For example, anger, surprise, red, clouds, hot.

- Locate where the emotions are in your body.

- Acknowledge the emotions and feel the full extent of the emotions. Accept it. You can mentally say "I feel______ (emotion). I accept it that I am______(emotion)".

- Breathe as you process the emotions.

- Cleanse and transmute the emotions by imagining a purifying white light or violet light entering your head or crown chakra going through every chakra and every part of your cells, organs, meridians, legs and going down to the earth.

2. How do you feel when you pay the bills, invoice, monthly credit card or bank statement?

- Identify the emotions that you are feeling. Anger, frustration, bitterness, sadness, reluctance etc.

Give it a name, a color or shape, hot or cold. For example, anger, surprise, red, clouds, hot.

- Locate where the emotions are in your body.

- Acknowledge the emotions and feel the full extent of the emotions. Accept it. You can mentally say "I feel______ (emotion). I accept it that I am______(emotion)".

- Breathe as you process the emotions.

- Cleanse and transmute the emotions by imagining a purifying white light or violet light entering your head or crown chakra going through every chakra and every part of your cells, organs, meridians, legs and going down to the earth.

3. How do you feel when you shop for goods and services and making payment?

- How does it feel about shopping for luxurious or branded goods.

- Do you feel worthy of carrying branded goods?

- Do you feel you have to settle for less?

- What do you value in goods or services? Quality or quantity?

- Repeat the same processes above.

4. How do you feel about earning money?

- Do you feel it is tough to make money? Or do you feel it is easy to make money?

- Do you feel it is tough to get clients? Or do you feel it is easy to attract clients?

- Repeat the same processes above.

Step 3 - Process your Emotional Reaction to Scams

I can identify a lot with this one. Whenever someone starts to ask me if I do any form of investment, I would freak out and my stomach turns ice cold. The trauma is stuck in my lower belly. So here is the process of healing.

1. Acknowledge that the scam happened. It had already happened and at that moment, we were not in the right frame of mind to think properly.

2. Be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself. Say sorry for losing the money. I am sorry. Please forgive me.

3. Identify the type of emotions that you are feeling.

4. Sit with the emotions and feel the full extent of the emotions. Acknowledge and accept how you feel.

5. Be conscious of your breathing. Take full belly breaths for as long as it takes for the emotions to be discharged. Visualize purifying white light or violet light entering your head or crown chakra and every cell, organs, meridians to cleanse and transmute the negative emotions and thoughts.

Step 4 - Identify your money stories or beliefs

There are deeper roots to your beliefs about money which is usually stemmed from family traumas and generational traumas which you pick up since young.

What kind of beliefs do you hold till today?

- Money is the root of all evil.

- Having more money is greed.

- Money is only for the richest and powerful.

- It is tough to make money.

- I have to work hard in long hours to earn more money.

- I have to take on multiple jobs to earn more money.

- I need to charge lower prices in order to stay competitive.

- I must give some free services or freebies to attract more clients.

- Money does not drop from the sky. You have to work hard for it.

- I can only be happy if I have X amount of money.

- I can only retire with X amount of money.

- I don't have the budget or not enough money.

- Money can only be earned through getting a job and investment.

- I have to find a job so that I can pay my bills.

- I cannot make money by being an artist or doing creative work.

These are some common beliefs. But are they true?

Beliefs are only what we choose to adopt.

We are what we believe. We manifest what we believe has happened.

So in order to manifest positive outcome, we must release the false old narratives about money.

Money is not evil. It is just a medium of exchange for goods and services.

Money is a consciousness.

We are all giving collective energies to money because of all the transactions flowing in and out whether it is fiat money, digital banking or digital currency. There are so much emotions tied to money.

Step 5 - Write a letter to Money

Write a letter to Money as if you are talking to a friend whom you had a quarrel with. Make up with your old friend and reconcile.

Dear Money, I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you, Thank you. I am sorry for misunderstanding you.............................

Observe any emotions you are feeling as you write this letter. Sit with the emotions, process, acknowledge, release and cleanse.

Step 6 - Emotional Freedom Tapping

You can also opt to do EFT to release money blocks such as fear, guilt, shame, unworthiness in receiving money, earning money and spending money.

Remember that money is not about hoarding, scrimping, accumulating, overspending or hard work. It is ideal to strike a balance between work, rest, play and enjoy.

Money is just one part of the abundance that we receive from the universe. Abundance is everything that we already have in the world. So do not overly focus on the money aspect. After all, when we focus on the joy, fulfillment, peace, love, passion and sharing with others, we attract what we need. If we focus too much on fear, doubt, lack and worries, we put ourselves to attract more debt, scams, difficulties and obstacles.

I do not know what is going to happen to the future of money whether we are all going back to gold or digital currency or both or Gesara. But bear in mind, ultimately, we are the currency that feeds whatever system is in place. We are the ones feeding the vibrations and frequencies and giving life to it as co-creators.

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