How I heal my ancestral patterns

When I started to learn about Fixed Star Astrology and identifying the Starseed Origin, I then realize that my parents are Pleiadian starseeds. I did not expect that because their behaviors seem to resemble Orion or even Draco. My parents were controlling and even feel narcissistic to me. After studying their astrological charts, the conclusion is we cannot judge a person simply by their behaviors. Everyone will go through some painful lessons, traumas and challenges in life that will either break them or shape them depending on how they process and interpret their experiences.

There are people in the New Age community who claim that our parents are our soul group. But personally I feel it is not entirely true. Not everyone's parents are from the same soul group. I am unsure what is their definition of Soul Group. If our parents are from the same soul group as ours, we should be able to feel the resonance and compatibility just like soul mates. But most of the time, there is a lot of discordant energies, power struggles, karmic debts and heavy energies.

My brothers are both from similar star systems while my parents are Pleiadians and I am the only one from Antares. I was told that my paternal grandmother is also a Pleiadian. So I did a healing by connecting with the Pleiadians, my ancestors and family energetically to release the negative patterns. Pleiadians are known to have problems with setting boundaries. This is most likely the problem in our ancestral pattern. When we do not stand in our own power and allow another person to override our inner authority and compromise our own well-being at the expense of over-pleasing/ over-caring another, we create a lot of disharmony for ourselves and others and even to the extent of victimizing ourselves.

I had been trying to figure out what are my ancestral patterns. Initially I thought it was only about money issues. But money is just a catalyst. There are deeper roots to the problem. So when I get to the Starseed Origin, then everything just becomes very clear. My mother is not really narcissistic after all. It's more about feeling insecured and having co-dependent issues. Even though we may come from different soul groups, we come together as a family to learn about the same theme / lesson. It also balances the energy dynamics from different soul group energies.

If anyone is interesting in healing their own ancestral patterns, this is a way to do that.