Why do people have jealousy issue

Why do some people feel jealous?

We can feel envious of others when we feel inadequate or not good enough. Humans tend to compare with each other and judge upon themselves. These are usually inner child issues which happened when they compare themselves with their sibling/s or when their parents appear to exhibit favourism. When there are options or choices, you will be spoilt with choice and decision and sometimes it can be hard to choose and inclined to focus on one and neglect the other.

For example, in ancient times, some men had several wives or concubines. So women had jealousy issue in those era.

Men can be jealous too when they like to compete over who is better, stronger, smarter etc. It can also happen when people feel it is unfair to them or life is unfair.

We live in a world that became competitive, combative and less focused on loving one another or appreciating our true nature. We forgot our true self and forgot to respect others. It can create problems with jealousy if we do not understand these issues and continue to hurt others and ourselves. But we can learn to heal from these issues and learn to appreciate that we are all given different gifts and talents and we are meant to share or complement one another without needing to compare.

We compare only to improve ourselves but also to love and accept ourselves for who we are.

If you wish to understand more about your own personal issues and healing them, do contact me for my service in coaching. Healing starts when we have realisations about the root of the problem and surrendering ourselves to healing.

Surrendering ourselves involve letting go of the lower self, ignorance, pride, low self-esteem and shadows. Surrendering is letting God in and trusting in God who is healing. All healing is self-healing and the meaning of self here, means the divinity within. All are divine and we need to recognize that divinity within. Do you recognize your own divinity first?

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